why no one cares about chronic illness

Why no one cares about chronic illness unless it’s cancer

No one cares about chronic illness unless it’s cancer. Cancer is a society-approved illness, and other illnesses are not. This Saturday I am participating in a fundraiser for Lyme Disease.  I’ll be the first to admit that I have not been very pushy about people donating, but basically, my sister was the only person I know who cared. She also showed my mother how to donate because my mother cared too, but that was it.

No one cares about chronic illness when you don’t die

I have people in my life who care about me and how I am doing, but they could care less about Lyme disease or Fibromyalgia. While I matter to them personally they don’t even know enough about chronic illnesses to even understand why there is a need for fundraising.

I’ve come to realize that if you are not in danger of actually dying then people don’t feel the need to expend energy and resources to help you. So many people donate to AIDS and cancer research (as they should) but would not ever consider donating to Lyme disease or Fibromyalgia. People with chronic illness face a lifetime of pain, exhaustion, and disability. A lifetime of people telling them to get over it, of people telling them they they are too depressing to be around, a lifetime of failing to meet everyone’s expectations,  but that is not enough to attract anyone’s attention.

No one cares about chronic illness when you’re disabled for life

Thousands of people are diagnosed with Lyme disease every year and thousands more are misdiagnosed with something else. Most people think that Lyme disease is no big deal, you’re treated with a few days of antibiotics and you’re fine. This is true if you catch Lyme right away and receive treatment right away, but because doctors are uneducated in Lyme very few people are lucky enough to get diagnosed quickly.

If more time and energy was spent in educating people and doctors then there wouldn’t be so many serious cases of Lyme disease out there. In my case I went  two years trying to find out what was wrong with me and I was lucky, most people take more time then that. But because doctors know so little about Lyme and so little research has been done I will most likely be disabled for the rest of my life, I just went too long without treatment.

 

No one cares about chronic illness when there is no cure

Too many people are of the impression that there is already a cure for Lyme disease, antibiotics, but antibiotics are only a cure if you catch it quickly. I could spend the rest of my life on antibiotics and my joints would never recover. This is why money is needed for research. There needs to be better testing available and doctors need to know how to use the tests they are given. The current tests are wildly inaccurate and are very likely to give a false negative and highly unlikely to give a false positive and yet most doctors blow off any Lyme patient with a positive test as a false positive. The Lyme test will also only give the correct results if it’s taken at just the right time, it actually won’t be positive right after you are infected, which leads doctors to deny that their patient has Lyme, which delays treatment and endangers to patient even further.

Why do people fear death more than disability?

Why do we fear death more than we fear permanent disability?  If you gave many people disabled by Lyme disease or fibromyalgia a choice, they might choose a disease like cancer because at least if they had cancer they would get some support. I’m not saying that cancer is easy by any means, but people care about cancer and they don’t care about chronic illness.

I can’t even explain how difficult it is to be disabled by an illness that no one believes is real. Not to mention the insurance companies will pay for some cancer treatment, they won’t pay for any Lyme disease treatment. This is why funding for Lyme disease is so incredibly important, but how do you make people understand that when they think that Lyme already has a cure? Education, education, education.  . If

If you have a friend with Lyme or any other chronic illness, ask them about about it, find out how they live from day to day, ask them what their future holds, ask them how their care could be better managed, ask them if there should be more awareness for their disease. Ask them all these things and support them, support them and support research and funding for the disease that affects them.

 

* Update: See part 2 of this article here. Now that I’m no longer in a rage, I do want to acknowledge that it is really hard to care about every one and everything. Lots of people have lots of different problems and it so difficult to pay attention to every single one. I just wanted to express my frustration with the fact that that chronic illness gets so little attention.

People can't be bothered by illnesses that don't go away.  Cancer is pre approved by society, but other illness and disabilities are considered a drag.

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