4 surprising ways chronic illness can change your life

Chronic illness has changed my life in many ways, there is no doubt about that. Most of the changes were fairly obvious, but recently I noticed a few changes I made without even knowing. Some of these changes are funny, some of them are not, but as usual I try to look at all of them from the comedic point of view. Because it’s either laugh or cry and today I choose to laugh.

1. Having pep talks with my body

I found myself saying this to my body this afternoon:

“Alright body, I just need you to hang in there a little longer. I know you’re not happy with me for all the things you did yesterday, but I need you to cooperate for 2 more hours. After that I promise you can crash. Yes I know I promised that yesterday, but things changed and I really need you to hang in there.  You will get lots of rest the next few days, I promise. And this time I’m not lying.”

When you have a chronic illness you have pep talks with your body

It took me a moment to even realize I was doing it, and it took me another moment to realize that this was a weird thing to be doing. It took me yet another moment to realize that I do this all the time.

2. Calculating my calendar like it’s Trigonometry

This is roughly how my thought process goes when I’m trying to schedule my life: 

If I do thing # 1 for 3 hours + thing #2 for 1 hour today, then tomorrow I have 1 hour to do thing #3

And if I have to do thing #4 for 4 hours on Thursday, then I can’t do thing #5 on Friday

But, if I do thing #4 for 2 hours on Thursday then maybe I can do thing #5 1 hour on Friday

But next week I have thing #6 that should last 5 hours and I really have to go to that, so I’m going to have to cancel thing #4.

But my prescription ran out so that means I have to cancel Friday and maybe Thursday because my doctor won’t answer the phone

If my doctor still won’t answer the phone before next week I’m going to have to cancel thing #6,7, and 8. But wait I have to do #8 so what can I take out of my schedule to make that happen?

Trying to figure out your schedule when you have a chronic illness is not easy. I didn’t even notice I was doing this until someone else pointed out how much mental work I put into managing my life.

3. Forgetting the most basic information

Last week the gas pump asked for my zip code like it always does, and I suddenly found myself at a complete loss. What was my zip code again? A minute went by and I started to panic, what was I going to do if I couldn’t think of my zip code? Maybe I could google it? Finally the answer came to me and I typed it in. WRONG. I had typed in an old zip code. Not a recently old zip code, a zip code from 10 years ago. The really funny part is that if my kids had been there with me I would have asked them what my zip code was and could have avoided the whole mess! Alas, I was on my own that day.

Even worse is forgetting words in the middle of the sentence. You start saying something and when you get to the word it’s suddenly gone, there’s an empty space in your brain where that word was. You’re left feeling like an idiot because you couldn’t produce that word even if someone offered you a million dollars.

4. Always being on the lookout for somewhere to sit

Healthy people don’t think anything about standing up for a few minutes, but for me standing in one place for any measure of time has physical consequences. Because of this I’m always looking for somewhere to sit. If I’m at the park the first thing I look for is a bench to sit on. If I’m waiting for somebody I always locate the nearest bench. I didn’t know that any of this was weird until someone pointed out to me that I can always be found sitting.


4 surprising ways chronic illness can change your life

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10 thoughts on “4 surprising ways chronic illness can change your life

  1. Yup, exactly! Thank you for helping me feel a little less crazy and along this morning, and for making me smile first thing!

    1. l just wish i could do anything for an hour
      i can’t walk or stand long before intense pain and my legs give out
      the memory had me laughing i constantly have to ask what we’re we just talking about and what did i say
      love to read these because i can feel normal again for awhile.

  2. Yes, I am always looking for someplace to sit too. I also forget things. I hate it when it’s in the middle of my sentence, but the zip code thing has happened too. I am really bad with names. Thanks for the smiles and the laughter, we need them 🙂

  3. My thing is parking spaces. I’m always looking for the one closest to the building. If I make it out of the house that day, I’m surely going to wear myself out trying to do as much as I can with the energy I have. So, getting from building to car in the shortest distance possible is crucial. Nothing worse than parking too far away and ending up sitting on the ground (okay, maybe falling down to the ground) because I can’t make it to my car in one trip!

    1. I know what you mean. I will actually avoid certain stores that never have any close parking spaces.

  4. Oh yea, the calculating alone can throw me into a crash. Not only my time, but also keeping up with my husbands time because he is in kidney failure and awaiting a donor. Between his crashes, and my crashes, his need to dos and my need to dos, we both get totally stressed out. Two chronic illnesses in the family is almost impossible. We both talk to ourselves to either keep moving, or stop.
    I literally had to put my address into my phone, because I am always forgetting it or confusing it with a past address.
    And, god forbid should I get on the floor. I will never be able to get up without help. Baths had to go because I could not lift myself out. Just too much strength and energy needed.
    Girrrl, you know what we are all feeling. Thanks for reminding us that we are not alone in this fight.

    1. That must be so hard! I have a hard enough time with my asthmatic son and all his health needs, I imagine waiting for a kidney donor is a long miserable process. I hope he gets a kidney soon.

  5. I know what you mean. I will actually avoid certain stores that never have any close parking spaces.

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